The Conscious And The Unsconcious Love.

How To Identify The Conscious And The Unconscious Love

Conscious love is free from a hook which characterizes unconscious love

Conscious Love;

'I will not stop loving you'

Unconscious love;

'I cannot stop loving you'

Do you want to avoid the heartbreak that comes from failed relationships?

Do you want your marriage union to endure for as long as you and your mates lives?

Do you want to get married to a partner that will care, cherishes and never stop loving you?

That is what every one of us want. That being the case, we need to know a secret, this secret about the conscious and unconscious love.

The type of love, conscious or the unconscious your date have for you before you both get married determines what you could expect from your relationship.

Can you from the two sentence above determined what I meant by a conscious and unconscious love?

How To know A Person Who Consciously Loves You

When a person says he/she truly loves you, that person should be fully conscious i.e fully aware of your nature in relation to his.

Therefore, the statement "I will" is a conscious statement that must be used which indicates that he or she is personally aware of your nature, and still loves you any way, and do not love you simply because of a hook.

Simply put, it indicates that he/she is not struggling to love you, and that neither you nor anyone else have imposed the person to love you, it is at his/her own "will" he did.

In fact, the affirmative statement "I will not stop loving you" is a kind of prophesy to you from your mate to be and should help you peers into the future and know how he/she will treat you tomorrow when the going gets though.

To understand how true what am saying is, lets do a little practical.

Step 1. Repeat the statement "I will not stop  loving you" three times while consciously thinking about your spouse or that special person. While repeating the statement think and feel as if he/she is present.

Step 2. Now repeat the same process using "I cannot stop loving you" statement while also thinking about that person.

Which of the affirmation confirm consciousness of a decision? Which one makes you feel as if you have made the right decision which you are not regretting? Which one tells you that you were (or are ) fully aware of that person's nature in relation to yours? Which one makes you feel that you are prophesying to your dear one? Finally, which one help you sense within you that you still truly love that person?

Step 3. Now get up  go tell (pick your phone now and call, if your mate isn't present) your mate any of the two affirmation you think answers the questions above.

From today on, take note if your spouse or mate to be consciously tells you or uses the  'I will not stop loving you' or 'I cannot stop loving you' affirmation when affirming his/her love for you.

If he/she at will uses the former, then congratulations. You may have found a mate who will truly love and cherish, who have consciously loves you tomorrow from today, before the tomorrow marital tribulations comes, and yet he/she even at that time will not stop loving you.

It is not a hook but a choice which he/she has consciously made from beginning, and is prophesying it to you today through this conscious prophetic affirmation "I will not stop loving you".

This confirms to your mate that you are not hooked by a mere feelings which you "cannot" get over but that you are fully aware, conscious of the love you have for him/her so that when the feelings fails, him/her being around you still will give you joy and peace.

Now why is the affirmative statement "I cannot stop loving you" an unconscious love?

Why Is The Affirmative Statement "I Cannot Stop Loving You" An Unconscious Love?

Imagine asking your child to do something he feels is difficult for him to do and he reacted by strongly shaking his head and shoulder left and right in a rebellious motion. But a few minutes latter he went and did what you asked him to do anyway, but in a frowned face and lack of wiliness, and joy.

Can you say he did it willingly or he did it because he has no other options but what you asked him to do?

The latter is true.

That is how or what the statement 'I cannot stop loving you' is saying.

It indicates not a person who is consciously doing what he is doing or who will in future continuously with joy, happiness and peace of mind do what he should do. It indicates a person who can stop loving you but reluctantly keep on keeping on because he has no other options. Now he/she is hooked, so he has to pretend he still loves you.

Such relationships or marriages will not be enjoyable. There may always be strain, thorn and thistles in the cord.

The truth is that, many lovers, and spouse are wishing that if they had known they will not have married the person who is their mate today. Others wish that the relationship should end. But they cannot so they feel hooked And that is where "I cannot stop loving you" statement comes in. It is now a must though the initial desire is no longer there.

My dear, you need not wait till this future time to come for you to know the person who will not stop loving you. Who, when tribulations in the flesh comes will not wish he/she didn't marry you.
 That is why you must choose wisely. You must determined during the courtship period if this person is consciously showing you love or unconsciously.

            There Is No Perfect Relationship But Only A Perfect Way To Remain United

It is a stone cold fact that no matter how wise you choose, there is no perfect relationship and their will never be a perfect mate. So there may always be a problem in a relationship and marriages which could even threaten to ripe apart your marriage or relationship. 

Weather you are consciously or unconsciously loved by your mate, how can you prevent this from happening. You can't prevent 'all' relationship or marital problems from arising but the good news is that you can prevent 'all' arises problems from tearing your relationship or marriage apart.

What if I should teach you one principle or a method or tool you can use to solve any problem that have and may arise in your love life, relationship and marriages?

Will you use the tool?

Did you know?

The same road or path relationship or marital problems follows and creeps in to destroy your relationship and marriages is still the same road you can take to drive it back?

This will be a topic for another book. You will find it trilling and one of a kind to read.