How Is Falling In Love And Being In Love Different?

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Today, movies and songs make it difficult for people to differenciate being in love and falling in love

What Is The Defference Between Falling In Love and Being In Love?

Boys, girls male and females, all have one thing in common when it comes to the aspect of life called LOVE.

All do either  fall or be in love at one time or another. So are you in love perhaps as someone like me is, or have you fallen in the Crucible of love? The two are different.

In song and movies, falling and raising is very common. But in real life you are expected to fall and remain, that is what I called being in love.

Fallig In Love, Why It Meaning Is Different Today

Have you ever seen anyone who intentionally falls? No. Except by mistake.
Love song and movies have changed the meaning of what the world before known as "falling in love". 

Much often today, you will hear the word 'fall in love' in song and movies or books. 

I want you to know that it actually examplifies mistake in love or most at times infatuation.

My dear i know you are getting the sense in what am saying right?

This is what I mean;

Sourse: webneel. A fall is by an accident or a mistake.



Just as a person might fall maye by mistake, perhaps by stumbling against an obstacle, Will he remain on the ground?  No. If he must move ahead in life he must get up.

So it is to all who fall in love as it were, in immitation of love in love song and movies.

Next: How is love viewed in love songs and movies, that makes falling in love changed meaning today, and what is being in love? How can you be in love?

Understanding the answers to the above questions is the key to avoiding heartbreaks in any relationship.

Love In Love Song And Movies

The point is, in love song and movies, love is often portrays as always going with sexual pleasures as if without it there is no love.

Whatever makes you fall in love is an obstacle  or a stumbling block. Once the obstacle failed, then one who has fallen must get up and move ahead, that is not real love.

When such sexual pleasures is not realized, the person who failed in love simply gets up from the fallen state and move ahead, so it is to all those who thinks that love is as it is in love song and movies.

Why Some Experience Heart Break and Failed Relationships

Sourse: webneel. For a relationship to last, its requires not just fallen but being in love with each other

My dear, do you see why movies and songs often ends up in heart break and some times leave the viewer unhappy?

The point is, the character whom you watched failed in love and since the love portrays in love song and movies is just that of eros  without the love of storge or Agape, (more on it latter) it's easy and simple to just get up as it were, and abandon the victim with nothing than a broken and crushed heart on the ground state.

Such is the result that comes from fallen in the crucible love.

NEXT: How about falling in love in real life? I prefer you be in love.
What is being in love? How can you be in love?
Learn how being in love can help you avoid failed relationship, marriage. and heart break.